Sharing our experiences

The Facebook group is a safe place where we can discuss the prompts, ask questions, and share our thoughts and our artwork from our study on Identity from Ephesians.
I am not a therapist or a counsellor but I hope that I can support and encourage you as we study together. If anything arises that you can't deal with, and that I feel I cannot deal with, please find someone in your church who you trust and ask them to help you.

Monday, 10 February 2014

Identity: Recreated

Welcome to the second of six sessions on Identity.  These messages were brought at Jubilee Church Solihull.  There are some great discussions going on in the Facebook group and some wonderful artwork being shared.

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Ephesians 4:17-19
So I tell you this, and insist on it in the Lord, that you must no longer live as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their thinking. They are darkened in their understanding and separated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them due to the hardening of their hearts. Having lost all sensitivity, they have given themselves over to sensuality so as to indulge in every kind of impurity, and they are full of greed.

Ephesians 2:1    John 3:19    1 Cor. 3:4    Jeremiah 17:9    Ezekiel 36:26-27

Ephesians 4:20-24
That, however, is not the way of life you learned when you heard about Christ and were taught in him in accordance with the truth that is in Jesus. You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.

Galatians 5:24    Galatians 2:20

Ephesians 4:25-32


Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbor, for we are all members of one body. "In your anger do not sin": Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold. Anyone who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing something useful with their own hands, that they may have something to share with those in need.  Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.  Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice.  Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.


Worship Song



Journaling
In your journaling you may want to write your feelings and your prayers and ignore the prompts.  The prompts are to help you and you can choose those that speak to you most.  You can download these prompts as a PDF.

How you feel about yourself affects how you live your life.  What does this mean for you?

What comes to mind when you read about your old attitudes and lifestyle?

How has your life changed since you were 'born again'?  Do you relate to the changes that Rob talks about?
  • our desires being different
  • we want to change
  • awakened conscience
  • attitude to church
  • hatred of injustice
  • other people notice you are different
Being recreated is an ongoing work.  What area of your life is God working on at the moment?

Are your preoccupied with your condition?   How does that manifest in your spiritual life?

What thoughts try to undermine your identity?   How can you counteract these thoughts?

How can you focus on your position instead of your condition?

Illustrated Letter
I have designed a letter for today's session to be used in any way you choose.  Download it by right clicking on the image and saving it to your computer.  Print it off, colour it in and glue it into your journal.  As it is a jpeg you can resize it to fit your journal.  You can see how I used it here.


I hope you that you have found today's message and journal prompts useful.  Share your thoughts, questions and journaling in the Facebook group.

Thursday, 6 February 2014

Identity: in Christ

Welcome to the first of six sessions on Identity.  These messages were brought at Jubilee Church Solihull.  The sessions are
1. In Christ
2. Recreated
3. Sonship
4. Royalty
5. Heavenly Citizens
6. Ambassadors
After which there will be a concluding talk.

If you haven't already, please download the podcast, In Christ,  and listen to it.

Who we are without Christ
Ephesians 2:1-3
As for you, you were dead in your transgressions and sins, in which you used to live when you followed the ways of this world and of the ruler of the kingdom of the air, the spirit who is now at work in those who are disobedient.  All of us also lived among them at one time, gratifying the cravings of our flesh and following its desires and thoughts. Like the rest, we were by nature deserving of wrath.

Romans 1:21     Romans 1:28-32   Romans 2:5-6     Romans 3:10   Romans 3:23


Who I am in Christ
Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in the heavenly realms with every spiritual blessing in Christ.  For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight. In love he predestined us for adoption to sonship through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will - to the praise of his glorious grace, which he has freely given us in the One he loves.  In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, in accordance with the riches of God’s grace that he lavished on us.


Ephesians 2:7   Ephesians 1:13    Romans 6:4   Colossians 3:3   Psalm 32:1    2 Corinthians
  


Worship Song



Journaling
In your journaling you may want to write your feelings and your prayers and ignore the prompts.  The prompts are to help you and you can choose those that speak to you most.  You can download these prompts as a PDF.
 
What areas of your life do you still need to let God into?

How can you be more thankful?

Are there wrongs or injustices that you see that you are speaking out about?  Or condoning by not speaking out?

Do you recognise what your life would have been like without Christ?

Rob describes our lives in terms of a house with many rooms.  Do you let God into all the rooms?

How difficult do you find it to admit you are wrong?  To yourself?  To other people?  To God?

'As if we have never sinned.'  What difference would it make to your life if you really got hold of this truth?

Have you realised the power and authority you have when you pray?  How might your prayers change if you prayed with this realisation?

Now we are 'in Christ' we look with the eyes of Christ, and hear with the ears of Christ.  How does this impact your life?

Illustrated Letter
I have designed a letter for today's session to be used in any way you choose.  Download it by right clicking on the image and saving it to your computer.  Print it off, colour it in and glue it into your journal.  As it is a jpeg you can resize it to fit your journal.  You can see how I used it here.

I hope you that you have found today's message and journal prompts useful.  Share your thoughts, questions and journaling in the Facebook group.






Monday, 3 February 2014

Identity: Crisis

Context
This is the introductory talk for a series on Identity at Jubilee Church Solihull.   We believe that God still speaks today and that he has gifted some people to bring his word to his people.  These words will always be in line with what is written in the Bible.  On the day of this talk there were some friends from another church visiting who had this prophetic gift and brought words for some church members after this talk.

Identity Crisis
Today's passage is not from Ephesians but from 1 Samuel.

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Bible Passage (NIV)
1 Samuel 9:1-2
There was a Benjamite, a man of standing, whose name was Kish son of Abiel, the son of Zeror, the son of Bekorath, the son of Aphiah of Benjamin. Kish had a son named Saul, as handsome a young man as could be found anywhere in Israel, and he was a head taller than anyone else.

1 Samuel 9:14-21
They went up to the town, and as they were entering it, there was Samuel, coming toward them on his way up to the high place. Now the day before Saul came, the Lord had revealed this to Samuel:  “About this time tomorrow I will send you a man from the land of Benjamin. Anoint him ruler over my people Israel; he will deliver them from the hand of the Philistines. I have looked on my people, for their cry has reached me.”  When Samuel caught sight of Saul, the Lord said to him, “This is the man I spoke to you about; he will govern my people.”   Saul approached Samuel in the gateway and asked, “Would you please tell me where the seer’s house is?”  “I am the seer,” Samuel replied. “Go up ahead of me to the high place, for today you are to eat with me, and in the morning I will send you on your way and will tell you all that is in your heart. As for the donkeys you lost three days ago, do not worry about them; they have been found. And to whom is all the desire of Israel turned, if not to you and your whole family line?”   Saul answered, “But am I not a Benjamite, from the smallest tribe of Israel, and is not my clan the least of all the clans of the tribe of Benjamin? Why do you say such a thing to me?”

1 Samuel 10:1-2
Then Samuel took a flask of olive oil and poured it on Saul’s head and kissed him, saying, “Has not the Lord anointed you ruler over his inheritance?  When you leave me today, you will meet two men near Rachel’s tomb, at Zelzah on the border of Benjamin. They will say to you, ‘The donkeys you set out to look for have been found. And now your father has stopped thinking about them and is worried about you. He is asking, “What shall I do about my son?”’

1 Samuel 10:9-10 
As Saul turned to leave Samuel, God changed Saul’s heart, and all these signs were fulfilled that day.  When he and his servant arrived at Gibeah, a procession of prophets met him; the Spirit of God came powerfully upon him, and he joined in their prophesying.

1 Samuel 10:20-25
When Samuel had all Israel come forward by tribes, the tribe of  Benjamin was taken by lot.  Then he brought forward the tribe of Benjamin, clan by clan, and Matri’s clan was taken. Finally Saul son of Kish was taken. But when they looked for him, he was not to be found.  So they inquired further of the Lord, “Has the man come here yet?”   And the Lord said, “Yes, he has hidden himself among the supplies (baggage).”  They ran and brought him out, and as he stood among the people he was a head taller than any of the others.  Samuel said to all the people, “Do you see the man the Lord has chosen? There is no one like him among all the people.”   Then the people shouted, “Long live the king!”  Samuel explained to the people the rights and duties of kingship. He wrote them down on a scroll and deposited it before the Lord. Then Samuel dismissed the people to go to their own homes.


Worship Song

                          

Journaling
In your journaling you may want to write your feelings and your prayers and ignore the prompts.  The prompts are to help you and you can choose those that speak to you most.  You can download these prompts as a PDF.

Have you prayed for something that God has allowed which wasn't necessarily in your best interest?  How did that work out?

Have you struggled with what God wants you to do?

What view do you have of yourself?

How do you view people?  Do you see people as God sees them? Are you able to see yourself as God sees you?

How often do you disqualify yourself?  Feel that you are not good enough, gifted enough, spiritual enough?

What is your story? What did God do for you when you first believed?

Where have you been hiding?  In the times when you have hidden who has run to find you?

What words has God spoken over your life that you need to remind yourself about?



Optional Video

Illustrated Letter
I have designed a letter for today's session to be used in any way you choose.  Download it by right clicking on the image and saving it to your computer.  Print it off, colour it in and glue it into your journal.  As it is a jpeg you can resize it to fit your journal.  You can see how I used it here.

I hope you that you have found today's message and journal prompts useful.  Share your thoughts, questions and journaling in the Facebook group.